I'm 40 yo. Growing up, I had very little adult guidance in sports. I taught myself how to throw a curve at about age 13. Not sure how good it was, but it did get batters out at that age. Back then, we pitched a lot of inning with very lttle regard tom pitch counts. I can honestly say that my eklbow did not hurt then and it doesn't hurt now.
With all of that being said, I would NEVER teach my 8 y/o son how to throw it. What is the proper age? I don't know.
"Smith corks it into right, down the line. It may go...........Go crazy folks! Go crazy! Jack Buck